– Putting you down or calling you names
– Blaming you for abuse or arguments
– Denying that abuse is taking place or playing down the abuse
– Isolating you
– Stopping you from going to work, college or school
– Making unreasonable demands for attention
– Accusing you of cheating or flirting
– Telling you what to wear, who to see, where to go and what to think
– Controlling your money, or not giving you enough to buy food or other essentials
– Threatening to harm or kill you
– Threatening to harm or kill themselves, children, animals
– Reading all texts, emails and letters
– Harrassing or following you
– Physicall violent to you, for example, punching, slapping, biting, burning, choking and restraining but not limited to.
– Destroying your belongings or throwing things around
– Touching you in ways you don’t want to be touched
– Making unwanted sexual demands or hurting you during sex
– Pressuring you to have sex or pressuring you to have unsafe sex, eg refusing to wear a condom
– Pressuring you to sleep with other people or sell sex against your wishes